| Here is the deal bare with me because this will be a little long. I talked to a friend of mine
you guy's know him as Chuck Boso on the Bass Zone he is from the Oklahoma City area and he posted on the Bass zone a few days ago about his daughter
in law Megan Boso being in an accident. She suffered an injury both to her brain and severe spinal injury .He asked that we open our hearts and just pray
for his son to have the strength to handle this and to keep faith everyday and not to give up hope on God or man. That is all he wanted just a prayer
from us. Here is what I ask of all that read this
Close your eyes and please.... remember your first true love. The one you thought you could not live without. You are in your teens dating. Well the special day comes and you look deep into each others eyes in the month of June of 2007 and say I do and till death do us part and you truly mean every word you are saying to him or her. You set up your first house together and make plans for a family. Then just 5 very fast short months later the same year you are spending your first Thanksgiving together then plan on your very first Christmas as a couple . You both are so very excited and can't waite to surprise each other. Then the very next day in a blink of an eye those plans are forever shattered. You find yourself spending each and every waking moment beside a bed in a hospital holding the hand of that very special person as the doctors tell you she will never have feelings from the neck down and she will never recover. This young man is faced with the very toughest choice he will ever make and is going to need all the help he can get. I am talking about a man 20 years old holding the hand of his very first true love and knowing that the doctors have told him she is forever gone physically and mentally and holding on to our prayers that he will have the strength to do what is being asked of him. Look in the mirror and ask your self could you turn off the machine that is holding your true love here and then go look at your better half today and think of what Christmas would be like if she or he were not there beside you or your son or daughter in that very same position as this young family is. We will be with our families this holliday season enjoying there company and he will not have his true love to hold or say I love you too. Thursday November 29th at 6:51 P.M Megan Michelle Boso a very talented, beautiful, kind, caring 20 year old young lady closed her pretty little eyes and left us. Cale her young loving husband held her hand and told her he loves her and always will as she quietly passed away. He is not a wealthy man but a very hard working young man and has some serious bill obligations coming and I am curious as to how many of you would help me help him. Chuck Boso his father and wife are there each and every day with them trying to do all they can to console him and keep him strong. Chuck is a very avid tournament fisherman and loves the sport as much as anyone of us. We have a New Years day jackpot every year here at Sooner Lake Oklahoma because it is a warm water generated lake. I have decided that we are going to do a benefit tournament for Megan to help this young man with the over whelming amount of bills he will have. The tournament will be $60.00 a boat and 100% of all the entry money is going to be donated to them in an account that has been opened under her name. I personally have formed a staff to assist me in the tournament weigh in and such and I personally ordered plaques to give to First, Second third place and bigbass. This is so they can have that memory of winning a tournament that had the very best cause behind it. I have recieved several calls from local tackle makers and dealers that are donating stuff to give to the anglers that fish this. I too ask everyone of you to close your eyes and pray and then please thank the good lord this is not you. I ask anyone that can come fish please come you can send your $ 60.00 entry to this address Herb Asche C/O Megan Boso 300 East Fresno Ponca City, Ok 74601 I will be finishing the entry form tonight. Make your checks out to Megan Boso Donation fund and send it to me and it will be taken care of. We are keeping track of how many enter and how much this raises. To those that just want to donate or can not attend but want to help here is where you can send it. Megan Boso Contribution Fund c/o Bank of Oklahoma 4324 SE 44th St Oklahoma City, OK 73135 Thanks for your time... Please keep in mind that every dime that comes in for the tournament will be 100% givin to this young man so he can see people do still care and we will always believe in him if he will always believe in us and never loose faith. Here is a picture of this young couple Cale and Megan Boso on there wedding day in June 2007. She had turned 20 on November 16th of this year. 
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Posts: 84 (11/29/07 12:44) |
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Posts: 526 (11/29/07 01:37) |
I will keep both in my prayers as well as thier families. This is an especially tough time of year to deal with tragedy. They will need all the support and
prayers we can give them.
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Posts: 1864 (11/29/07 02:23) |
What a horrible situation for everyone. I will see what I can do and get with you.
I honestly have thought about a tragic event like this and my wife has specific instructions on what I would want done. I hope if that day ever comes she can and will follow through with my wishes. I will make sure and keep them in our prayers. I am sorry. Judd Lasiter |
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Posts: 85 (11/29/07 04:35) |
Judd, Me and my wife talked all week about this and I said the same as you and she said the same that on what we want done. I hope she is strong enough to
make that choice but when she asks me will I do it as she has asked and I find it hard to answer because when do you say when and feel it is the right choice.
The what if I waited will always be there. Thanks for the help and prayers Judd. They truly are appreciated.
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Posts: 685 (11/29/07 04:49) |
I have faced such choices many times as a third party. Instructions have to be left. The decision will not be easy but I've rarely seen folks make the
wrong one. This young lady is just that- young. Incredible things happen every day- hopefully her story will be another great one that reminds us all just who
is really in charge.
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Posts: 149 (11/29/07 07:30) |
OK BIGBASS: Donation check will be sent shortly. Will not be able to attend "T", but feel these young people deserve more than what has come their
way. GOOD LUCK with "T" Hope all that can, will. Thanks for posting.
PANT 2 BOB P.S. Prayers are already sent and will continue. |
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Posts: 6 (11/29/07 08:24) |
My heart goes out to all affected by this tragedy. I have just prayed to God for this family, and will continue to remember them.
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Posts: 9955 (11/30/07 12:54) Registered User |
Prayer is the power that heals, fixes or allows us to cope with these tragedies.
BCB |
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Posts: 86 (11/30/07 08:02) |
Here is the flyer for the tournament. I encourage anyone interested to please go to this page. To open the file you will see a blue box facebook and
directly below that you will see a tan box that says click to down load. Click on the tan box and then it will ask you if you want to open click open and there
it is.
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Posts: 87 (11/30/07 06:53) |
I am struggling hard to type this through eyes that are swelling shut and dripping with tears so please bare with me... Chuck called me and asked me to tell
all of you that he thanks you for your thoughts and prayers and ask we continue to do so for his son Cale.
Thursday November 29th at 6:51 P.M a beautiful, talented, caring, 20 year old young lady named Megan Michelle Boso closed her beautiful eyes and passed peacefully away. Cale and family were by her side. Cale, you are the very biggest man I have ever known. I promise we are not done yet. We are going to continue to help you financially and we will continue to pray and I truly am so very sorry. I have no words that will make you feel better. I have nothing I can offer to fix this but we will take this tournament and make it the biggest memorial tournament for Megan Michelle Boso you will ever see. I am so very sorry Cale. |
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Posts: 9962 (12/01/07 09:55) Registered User |
It is hard when anyone looses a loved one, and it is harder when a young life passes. Ours is not to ask
why, though to see each day as a blessing and remember he has a reason for everything. At times like this the family perhaps will not understand and we never
will, they are grieving their loss. We are to be thankful for the experiences and blessings he has given us and to enjoy those memories of our times together.
Knowing those who believe will eventually we will be in one place.
BCB
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Posts: 54 (12/01/07 10:05) |
Peace and Faith to family and Friends. Prayers sent.
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Posts: 1759 (12/01/07 10:54) |
May God bless and hold this beautiful young lady in his loving arms, forever. and also be with her young husband, and give him continued faith in which he can
place his future. So many times we are overwhelmed by events which we cannot understand, but our faith always prevails, and somewhere down the line we will
understand, even if only when we're reunited with our loved ones.
Let us know how we can help Herb, we will be wherever you need us. D. |
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Posts: 91 (12/06/07 02:17) |
Bass Cat Boats, Not sure who posted # 10 but that was very well said and they truly appreciate the kind words and prayers from you and the entire family here
on BCB web site. I too want to thank all of you for the support for this young man.
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Posts: 12 (12/07/07 06:11) |
Herb I'll give you a shout some time in the next week or so and see what I might be able to do to help, probably won't fish but definetly will help out
some way, I will also get this to our club and see if any of them want to fish.
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Posts: 92 (12/07/07 10:16) |
Luvtofish, Thank you so very much. You are appreciated so very much. You can reach me anytime the number is my cell
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Posts: 2 (12/10/07 10:46) |
I send my prayers to their families, and all the Bass Cat families. I will not be able to atend the "t" . I am proud to be part of the BCB family and
see everyone come together
to help out this young couple in their time of need. God bless all of you and say a prayer for are soldiers who are in arms way these holidays. |
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Posts: 152 (12/12/07 09:14) |
Cale, I can't begin to tell you how I feel after reading Herb's description of the recent events in your life. All I can say is that my prayers are
with you, and I hope God gives you the strength to come through this very difficult situation. I'm sure you have many questions and doubts right now, but
keep your trust in God, and He will bring you through this. We can't always explain why things happen, but I believe that God can work out all things for
good for those who trust in Him. That's hard to imagine right now, but keep believing. Don't give up. You are a very strong man to have come through
this so far, and you will get stronger every day. I don't know if my words mean anything to you, but I hope that my prayers will mean more. Stay strong,
trust in God, and you will make it. God bless you.
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Posts: 9 (12/12/07 03:38) |
All is not loss. Remember the the gift of her time and memories. The time you spend with your loveones is Gods gift to you. Know that she will never pass until
forgoten. With this in mind you might say goodbye but never forget.
Herb: Please call me. I might be able to help you with some things for the Tournament. Mike Lott |
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Posts: 4 (12/13/07 08:47) |
Cale,
My prayers are with you at this time. I just had to say goodbye to a very big part of my life back at Thanksgiving and I know how hard it is. I was fortunate to have been able to have a lifetime of good memories with my Uncle Charlie but the hurt is still with me, so I know some of the pain you feel. It will be with you for awhile. Please take this time to talk about her to anyone who will listen. This will reinforce the wonderful memories you have. Hold her close to your heart and your heart will help you let it go and move on when it is time. A lot of people are praying for you. Know that and gather strength from it. You are young, strong, and resilient. You will make it through. Your family and friends (even those 'fishing buddies' you've never met) will help you. "The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
23rd Psalm Mike
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Posts: 273 (12/15/07 03:18) |
It is so sad to see this happen to such a young couple as they get started on life's journey together.
Many prayers are sent to the family during this trying time. |
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